Dating
The very thing holding most guys back when meeting women can sometimes be the most elusive.
Our conversations, interactions and relationships with women can only ever be as good as our capacity to show up fully. But bringing ‘all of us’ to the table can take some untangling of old patterns, behaviours and “emotional blank spots” (places where you just feel ‘numb’)
These blind spots (the things that we can’t see in ourselves) can have women not trust us, choke our interactions and sometimes leave them feeling ‘creeped out’…
We give you the tools to get you aware of these parts of yourself – and ultimately will leave you with more choice and freedom in the way you show up with women.
Sexuality
Sex. One of those areas that has the potential to give us extreme pleasure, but can sometimes feel like it’s laced with landmines.
Some of our core insecurities can lie buried deep in the challenges we have around sex – which is also has it be the place where we can do some of our richest, most rewarding work on ourselves.
More than ever, we’re bombarded with images of sex – but even with Tinder, Snapchat and the thousands of hours of porn making its way into our browsing history, it’s easy to feel nervous and incompetent when faced with the rich emotional, physical and mental complexity that the landscape of sexuality offers.
We’ll teach you some cool techniques – but what a lot of guys get the most benefit from is the deep-dive into their own psychology that we have some rock-solid frameworks and roadmaps for.
Intimacy
Real intimacy is far more than sharing personal information or having sex and, while many don’t articulate it, most of us crave emotional intimacy and connection.
We will help you to find the courage and openness to share what you’re feeling in ways that will draw her in and leave her hungry for more. You’ll also learn the art of presence and how to “get her world” to create a truly intimate connection with someone you care about.
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EP 25 | Stepping Into Your Power and Following Your Purpose (plus a special announcement…)
It has been an honor and a pleasure to serve as Executive Director for AMP for the past 2.5 years. In that time, I have seen hundreds of men lay claim to more of their true selves and leverage that unencumbered self-expression to create lives of... read moreEP 24 | Feminism, Men’s Issues, and Misleading Statistics
*Trigger Warning!* This one might seem offensive, but it is a thoughtful exploration of both sides of a touchy, controversial issue. Feminism did a lot to open the professional sphere to women, a world once totally dominated by men. Considering we as a society are... read moreEP 23 | What’s the Latest With Decker?
Decker Cunov founded AMP with Bryan Bayer over 8 years ago. In the last couple years, he stepped away from AMP and turned his relational mastery skills to the business world, helping silicon valley leverage the power of authentic relating to accelerate... read moreEP 22 | Integrity, Leadership and Video Games – Ian Blei
Ian Blei is an executive coach and master of human behavior. I personally worked with Ian for 6 months and in that time he helped me become aware of so much of the way I show up in leadership. This awareness is the first step in making improvements and ultimately... read moreAuthentic Man Program?
Does “authentic” mean anything? Is the word authenticity overused to the point of hollowness? Some certainly think so, and I sometimes feel a pain when I see a man trying so hard to “be authentic.” Authenticity can become just another way we shame... read more
EP 21 | Around the World in 80 Lays
Melanie Curtin
Around the World in 80 Lays. That sounds really hot. Listen as Melanie Curtin opens her journal and shares some of her adventures as a sex-positive woman traveling the world. Melanie’s new book is the detailed account of her bold personal journey... read more
EP 20 | You call that a goal?
How to Really Get “Unstuck”
Keith Martin Smith
We enjoyed the guest post from author Keith Martin Smith so much we invited him on the podcast to talk us through it. Keith is a published author, 20 year Kung Fu master, Zen Priest…and managed to have a life on the side. How does one achieve as... read more
Guest Post | Why Goal Setting Fails
(And 5 Rules to actually make change happen)
Guest Post from Author/Whiskey Lover/Zen Priest/Kung-Fu Master Keith Martin Smith If you’re on this site, you’re here for a reason. You probably want change of some kind — maybe more confidence with women, more connection a your wife or partner, just more ease... read more
EP 18 | The sacred and the profane
– David Bollt of ModelSociety.com
Plato taught us that the Good, the True, and the Beautiful are the celestial essences or ideas, independent but so intertwined as to be inseparable. When it comes to the body, the human form is, quite simply, beautiful. Yet our relationship to this naked beauty often... read more
Are you unsatisfied with your relationship to yourself, to the world… to women?
Most men have a sense (deep down) of what’s really possible for them in their lives. Even though they know that their jobs, and relationships could be far more rewarding, a lot of guys feel stuck in old patterns. No matter how hopeful or frustrated they might be, many men simply don’t know how to make the leap from how they are now, to how they want to be.
Authenticity can be your key to a whole new world of possibilities.
Looking at culture, there are a lot of fantasy messages about how men are ‘supposed’ to be. It’s no wonder that so many guys run around working so damn hard to seem okay, to appear happy, look successful or occur as confident. With so much attention on appearances, who we SEEM TO BE can sometimes feel like it’s way more important than who we ACTUALLY ARE. At work, at play and especially with women, few things will radically transform your life as powerfully as letting go of appearances and unleashing your authentic self. Relationships become richer and connections deeper when you know who you are and can express your deepest truth.
The Authentic Man Program is dedicated to supporting you in unlocking your inner bad ass.
For the past 10 years we have been developing the very best tools, trainings and information to support you in expressing your sexuality and your power. Our coaches, workshops, products and support materials are world class resources that teach you how to unlock your authentic self, so that you can fully enjoy being you, and make the impact that you want to make on the world around you.
What if I told you that your relationships with women can help you transform every area of your life?
A lot of guys are perfectly happy being miserable. Their jobs are “good enough”, their relationships are “good enough”. Sometimes when things feel “just OK” we might not have the motivation to make changes, to step outside of our comfort zones and grow in really important ways. No matter how “OK” things may seem to be, if you are not enjoying rich, full, juicy and exciting connections with women then you are probably ready to make some profound changes. You might just be ready to do whatever it takes to claim the relationships and the life you truly want. Guys tend to think of their lives as compartmentalized experiences. Career, friendships, family and women might all seem like totally different categories with totally different challenges. The truth is that the skills and understandings you need in order to have amazing connections with women (and even to have great sex) are often the very same skills and understandings that you need to to rock your career or achieve a goal. When you can express who you are and what you want, powerfully and without shame, when you can remain present and focused in the face of stress and upset, when you can welcome whatever comes up in any moment with integrity and truth… you radically transform how women experience you and simultaneously transform just about every area of your life.
Are you satisfied with things being ‘good enough’? Or are you ready to take your life, your career, your friendships AND your relationships with women to the next level?
No matter if you are having trouble meeting women, or are already in a committed relationship, no matter if you are thriving in your career or feeling a little lost… AMP is here to help you live as the very best: friend, brother, son, father, and / or lover that you can be. Thousands of men that have taken the dive and come out the other end with more choice, more capacity and more freedom in their lives and especially their relationships.