As you can see from the attendees of the private screening, it’s been a pretty positive response so far.
There is SO much I could say about this program, but for now all I will say is that this is The most powerful program AMP has ever put together.
WE NEED YOUR HELP
While the footage with Decker and the Women has already been filmed, we’re still shaping it into the final program, creating bonuses, commentary and free content (videos, “cheat-sheet downloads”) to be released in celebration of the program’s release.
So my question is:
Which do you want the program to focus more on?
1. Having Rewarding, Unforgettable Conversations — Overcoming everything from the anxious “What do I say to her first?” and the “brain freeze” when you suddenly lock up and aren’t sure where to take the conversation, to having flat, dull interactions where the date seems to be going nowhere…
or….
2. Creating Deep Connection — Great for guys in long-term relationships, to enjoy their lover more and more, AND for single guys to overcome having women frustratingly “flake” on them (unreturned calls, cancelled/rescheduled dates, etc.)
***So, tell us in the comments below:***
1) If you’re single or in a relationship…
2) Which topic you want this program to emphasize:… Deep Connection, or Rewarding Conversations?…
3. (Optional) What kind of difference would this skill would make in your life?
My preference is to do a bit of both. Deep connection is what I’m really looking for, but rewarding, unforgettable conversations is also there. And it’s best, since I am a guy, to look at the nuts and bolts, although I’m also an artist and understand poetic language as well.
Hi gents,
This looks very good. Inspiring and of great added value to countless lives.
If I have to choose between the two options I’d say Creating Deep Connection is the way to go, since having such a connection is the starting point for a whole world of possibilities, including having rewarding, unforgettable conversations. Also, on your way to getting a deep connection most probably at some point there will be spoken word too, so I’d say my choice is a matter of two birds and one stone. Besides that, I always prefer mastering a foundation, because it gives you the ability to just free flow/be creative from there, over learning stuff that is less profound. Something that also fits the profile of AMP.
So, that’s how I see it. Good luck with editing the footage and I look forward to hearing from you when you’re done.
Regards,
Martyn from Amsterdam
O, and at the moment I’m single and almost ready to go for a new chapter in my love life. Therefore this stuff is a very welcome addition to my life.
Hi,
I want both.
But isn’t a good conversation automaticily in a deep connection included?
So I would prefer deep connection because a unforgettable conversation would be included.
regards
johannes
Which topic you want this program to emphasize:… Deep Connection, or Rewarding Conversations?…
Really? Don’t you think these are BOTH essential here? That’s pretty frustrating to think YOU guys don’t get that!
Still integrating the AMP course from last January and probably always will be. My thought is that a conversation isn’t going to create anything lasting without a connection, and you can have a connection without a conversation, so I would prefer the program to emphasize the connection aspect. Looking forward to the program’s release, and keep me posted. Thanks, Jim Hislop
seems like a great product. Who’s that guy with the furry hat?
I’m married and definitely want the low down on Deep Connection. I’m in a place of acceptance where I can say “hey life…I got you all wrong…now how do I do you right”. Nature abhors a vacuum, and I’m looking for something positive, effective and life serving to fill the void in me. Maybe this program is it.
personaly i have problems consentrating, and keeping in the present, my mind wonders in all sorts of directions, and i find staying with a girl/woman in conversation difficult
1) I’m single.
2) Deep Connection. To me Deep Connection is a larger scope than “Having Rewarding, Unforgettable Conversations”. In my experience Deep Connection includes “Having Rewarding, Unforgettable Conversations”, but also other things, such as:
– establishing comonalities around life values/interests/hobbies/life situation/etc.
– the feelings of mutual understanding
– Rapport (the PUA community meaning)
– Comfort stage (Mystery Method C1-3)
– Trust (one can have great fun rewarding unforgetable conversations with a medium level of trust, but Deep Connection requires a Deep level of Trust).
– Creating, Maintaining or Enhancing existing Connection via text messaging (SMS, Email, Facebook, etc.)
Finally, 2.5 years ago I met one woman at a bar, and I had probably the most engaging conversation with a woman i’ve ever had for like 2hrs. And our next few dates – the same, we loved our conversations, and sparks of Attraction were there too. These conversations were so rewarding and unforgettable, i still remember them, even though I approached like 1000 women since then. But eventually instead of a Deep Connection with that woman, I eventually focussed on our differences not comonalities, which was a mistake. This example shows to me that just having great conversations is less important than and is only a part of “Deep Connection”.
3) The following would make a huge difference for me and I wonder whether you have or could add these:
– how to create a Deeper Connection quickly in the first interaction with a woman (whether I met her on the subway or at a friend’s party), so that the phone number becomes more solid.
– how to create a Deeper Connection during the first phone call, to minimize a chance of flake on the first date.
Deep Connection in the first date and the relationship is also useful to have in this program, but I feel is easier than the above two.
Both choices are important and interrelated and very valuable in my opinion. And I think you guys know that already. Can’t wait for this product to come out and I hope the price of it is something that I can afford. Whether I would be able to get this product or not, I wanted to thank you guys for the wonderful job you’re doing for us. You guys are great….
Cheers,
Ron
1) Single
2) I would like it to be both, but having a little bit more emphasis on 2. Creating Deep Connection.
3) Hopefully, it would help me as you call it “Get women more”, really knowing her, instead of just projecting my limiting beliefs onto her and being prejudice about who and what she is just because she is a beautiful woman.
Deep connection, always. Conversation might be a means to that end, and great conversation can open the dorr, but conversation is not the basic human need. Connection is the need, and the desire, and the goal of human interaction. Yes?
Why not cover it all? A deep relationship starts with a good conversation, and good conversations should always be part of a deep relationship, even those wonderful conversations where no words are spoken.
Deep, in-the-moment appreciation and connection seem like great anchors for good conversations and deep relating.
I can see how being single, this could lead to great fun and happy times either serially or monogamously, and in a relationship, it would really enhance the quality of that relationship. Seems a no-brainer to me.
I have been missing that deep connection all my life. I mean, I’ve done things to make myself aware of it, and then find myself face-to-face with someone who is not there. Having an additional tool and/or reference point for bringing that out in the other, gently, un-threateningly, lovingly, playfully would make my life more interesting. So would knowing when to quit fishing and cut bait.
1. in several relationships
2. Deep Connection, Honesty, Openness, and Authentic Integrity.
3. Always looking to move to the next level of relating to *everyone* in my life.
coming to S.F. in April of next year. Looking forward to meeting ou all!
S.
Hi!
1) I am single
2) I’d like the program to emphasize Rewarding Conversations
3) This would make a world of difference because I have not really been socialized and have no idea how to even start a conversation much less keep one going!
I’m in a relationship where I’m allowed to date. (very happily by the wey) Thought in my mind I still consider myself single as it’s not like the typical relationships I’ve had in the past.
If I HAD to choose between Deep Connection or Rewarding Conversations: This is a though one to decide, because I would very much like to take my relationship super deep, and be able to lead that with my girlfriend. Tough right now where i’m most clumsy is on having rewarding conversations. I always go blank, and I always have awkward silences and dull conversations, and it stops me from even trying to create a new connection/interaction. This makes me sad, and also feeds into moments of depression. 🙁
This skill would make TONS of difference in my life! I think it would make me more bold in making decisions, I wouldn’t hesitate to meet the people I’d like to meet (but don’t even try) It would help me relate to clients better as a massage therapist But over all I would enjoy life a WHOLE lot more! !
I’m currently single. I think that “creating a deep connection” is the more over-arching theme here. I would expect “rewaring and unforgettable conversations” to develop as a by product of that connection anyway.
I think having deeper connections with the women in my life would be incredibly rewarding on every level, from the pragmatic day-to-day stuff right through to my core identity.
My only question is whether the comments and feedback given here will actually change the content of the programme or just the way in whic it is marketed?
Cheers 🙂
Single
Please emphasize CREATING DEEP CONNECTION. I feel like my conversations are already pretty great with random women. They enjoy the interaction and we have fun, easily flowing conversations. But the connection, that deep connection where they just have to see me again or they feel a deep attraction for me where they want to see me more than they “fear” seeing me (for whatever silly reason), is prevalent.
I can’t help thinking… that the two are interlinked?
emphasize Rewarding conversations.
In a relationship.
Man, I continue to improve my inner game and communication with the ladies…and one positive aspect of my interaction is I am a man with a stragety…I find women respond to confidence,being bold,being interesting and taking some risk, and most important being a little funny,sexually flirty and, letting her know that she could let a goodie slip through her fingertips if she doesn’t give me some positive feedback. CJ II
I think it’s got to be a bit of both, because without having deep connection, rewarding and unforgettable conversations are just an ego trip, they’re just a way that we can go “hey look I can pick up all the chicks” and that’s great, but there’s more too it than that. The deep connections, I think is something that most people strive for, in or out of a relationship irregardless of what is actually going on.
1. Single
2. Ideally, I think it would be great to have both… but if you have to focus more on one or the other, I would go for #1
3. I would find it easier to smile while talking to women, and would feel relaxed while having a conversation instead of stressed.
I don’t think its really possible to have a genuine Deep Connection without first having a Rewarding Conversation unless that Deep Connection is purely physical in nature, IE: Just Sex. Thus any conversation is just superficial cause the relationship is based on the physical.
Heaven can wait, but I can’t wait for this program.
1. Single
2. Deep Connection W-I-T-H Rewarding Conversations.
3. This could help guys show their presence, etc., with greater clarity so she can FEEL that This guy Gets H-E-R-rrrr…
I am single…have been for a loonnngggg time. I am interested in what your program will offer. I don’t see how you can seperate the two…they go hand in hand
Im single and I’m voting for the Deep connection; because, this is where I am right now. Im great at opening and creating some attraction and sparks. So I get lots of numbers but also lots of flaking. I want to build deeper connections to take my numbers to dates.
1) I’m single
2) I would like you guys to emphasize on conversations because that’s the first step for me and, because I don’t have good conversations, the interaction doesn’t even go towards connecting or sex. That said, I would love to have the program focus on deep connection as well as anything else Decker does on a daily basis.
3) If I was able to have rewarding conversations then I wouldn’t feel afraid to talk to women because I wouldn’t be thinking of what to say next or anything like that.
1) single. 24.
2)I love great conversations. It is one of the ways how you can enjoy each moment with no matter who you are with. A great conversation usually leads to a great connection and viceversa. So I am interested in both. If I have to choose: Connection.
3) feel myself from the other side is a great practice. less BSing. Deep & real > Flat & fake. The best memories I have had with women were those moments when she really felt seen and understood.
Having Rewarding, Unforgettable Conversations — Overcoming everything from the anxious “What do I say to her first?” and the “brain freeze” when you suddenly lock up and aren’t sure where to take the conversation, to having flat, dull interactions where the date seems to be going nowhere…
I am single and would want to learn to have a deep connection with a woman. I believe in true love and want to experience such a connection without my mind coming into analyzing everything! It would add the ability to always be myself and free with a woman and also to have lasting relationship from the day we met and 30 years from now! -Guillermo
1. I’m in a relationship.
2. I don’t see these two as separate. If there’s deep connection, I’m having fun in the conversation. If there’s not, I’m not…so if I had to choose, I’d say deep connection.
3. To really understand a beautiful woman’s world-view, and to communicate to her that I do, might make all the difference.
i was truly impress with your presentation guys.. when i saw the presentation for the very first time my mind went blank and i listen to all the feedback and want to know more about Getting Her World
I’m currently single, so starting up amazing conversations is definitely a higher priority right now. But, I would also love to be able to move those amazing conversations into something deeper, and be able to have that deep connection that makes women volunteer and even DEMAND a second meeting/date. I find that once I get into that amazing conversation (number 1), I have no problem transitioning into a deeper conversation once we’re alone and relaxed. So I definitely would appreciate the focus on having rewarding and unforgettable conversation.
The difference? All the world. I tend to find my ability to converse with people to be very bipolar – either I have all the things in the world to say to them (my closest friends), or nothing at all to say. If I can master the ability to have a rewarding conversation with anyone, then I can expand that sphere of fun, exciting conversation to everyone I hang out with and meet, and give them amazing experiences too. (AND get to really experience them as human beings!)I find that I’m great at initially connecting with people, but after that first meeting, I suddenly lose the compulsion and interest to maintain that same connection we first had. I hate that feeling of disconnection, of, “I’d love to talk to you, but I have nothing to say and nothing to be curious about.” It’s wrong, and because of it, I miss out on so much! A connection with the rest of humanity is the quintessential experience of what it means to be a human being. And without that, my life will fall apart.
1. I’m currently single
2. I’d love rewarding conversations.
3. Having rewarding conversations would take my interactions with people to a uplifting level where we’re all excited to have met one another.
1. In a committed relationship.
2. Deep connection.
3. To be able to go deeper and deeper and find a way to get that full connection with my woman that I somehow feel is possible.
hate the dead monents with a woman
1) single but only looking for open relationships.
2) can you really have one without the other? if so , i’d say there should be 2 products for i would by the 2. first one tough would probably be deep connection.
3)am i sort of a natural at this and it does already make a huge difference, i feel excited with the quality of connection and conversations i am having, so , being the eternal student that i am, i would love my life even more if i continue to go deeper in to this skills.
1) Single
2) Rewarding Conversations
3) Looking 4ward to this
I’m single, and for that reason the Rewarding Conversations would be great to listen to and watch. I feel this would give me that head start to meeting women and kind of break that wall that is there which holds me back from meeting new women.
Thanks
Adam
I’m in a relationship, and it’s going really well. I’m also 27 and not exactly ready to settle down, either. I feel with each relationship, it becomes deeper and more meaningful. Anything to help improve my current relationship and arm me for who knows what down the road would be highly valuable. Thanks. 🙂