"Since
AMP, I Have a Lot More Confidence,
Success, and Am Taking More Chances!"
“Decker and Bryan were really
able to demystify and break down relating
to women as something that is
attainable and within reach.
I really got that I could do this
too. And I have!
Before the course, I was totally
stuck. I had not dated in
over a year, and I wasn’t
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desires were all jumbled up. I didn’t
know how to express what I felt, and had a
lot of judgments about it. After the course,
I had a lot more confidence
and was consistently taking more chances
and going after what I want. I dated
regularly afterwards, and now I’m in
an amazing relationship that I’m completely
excited about!
The course was great. I feel really
good about being in my own skin,
and now I can just relax and be with women
rather than worrying about how I am appearing.
I can enjoy the actual moment rather
than being freaked about whatever’s
coming up inside of me because of who is in
front of me. I got that women actually
do enjoy the real, uncensored me
rather than some crafted image!”

"This
is the Real Jedi Mind Sh*t!"
After leaving the weekend program at AMP,
my interactions, my contact with women (and
men, for that matter) are on a completely
different level. I came away with an enlightened
mind and a renewed passion to creating what
can only be described as "authentic
and real interactions" with every person
I meet.
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guy, with my awareness at a 6 or 7. With
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even a 10. IMO, this is the next level, the real
jedi mind sh*t that takes interactions with people
to even greater heights.
Have you ever met someone who just floored you?
You know the man or woman who has a presence about
them that is emanating like a force field surrounds
them? Well, that's what AMP does for you. It allows
you to see and feel these waves.

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"One
of the Hardest and Most Profoundly Rewarding
Things I've Ever Done"
"If you're at a place in your
life where the Authentic Man Program
sounds like something you ould benefit
from, I can't encourage you enough to
make the leap. AMP is at the same
time one of the hardest and most profoundly
rewarding things I have ever done.
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"I
Would Not Trade These Experiences for
Anything!"
"I had had many great experiences
with women before AMP, but to a large
degree everything was passing me by.
Before AMP I could see what I wanted
in my head but I wouldn't execute.
Now I have a life with more fluidity,
a life that's fully lived, no feelings
of inferiority or superiority, and
my relating with men and women has
changed so tremendously, I feel such
a tremendous gift
that the relationships that I do have
are much deeper and more fulfilling
to me."
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"In the course, it was really
a challenge to have so strong a mirror held
up to me. It was not easy, but I really enjoyed
the men in my course and got so much out of
it--it was so much more than I expected.
I thought it would be some dating course where
I would learn some pickup lines and other outer
game, but it was really nothing like that, and
I'm glad it wasn't. Outer game wouldn't have
gotten me to the experiences that I had over
the last six months almost a year now. I
would not trade these experiences for anything.
The course really opened up my hunger for really
deep relating which includes, but is so much
more than just getting a first conversation
started-- it's about my Being."
"Decker is very charismatic,
and develops trust and very quickly and easily,
definitely a genuine feeling. I really feel
his commitment and his desire to do this work.
He shares his own life in the course
very boldly at times, and that really
helps to ground the teachings. How he interacts
with the students--it's very approachable and
he's got a very strong intuitive sense of what
really serves a man in a situation, and I really
appreciate his tenacity -- he's really
committed to digging in and staying with them
until they can really get a breakthrough."

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"I'm
Really Attaining Mastery Over Approaching
Women!" |
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A
transcripted voicemail story from an AMP
grad:
"Hey guys, I just had to call you!
This absolutely divine woman, I mean probably
a 10, she's standing in front of the manicure
store and we smiled at each other.
I immediately park my car, took
a couple breaths and set aside the stories
in my head-- much in the spirit of AMP--
and walked right up to the woman who's running
the store and said, 'Obviously I'm not here
to get a manicure; I'm here to make the
acquaintance of this beautiful woman who
works for you.'
And
so I walk up to this gorgeous woman,
smiled at her and I said, "I saw
you, and I just had to immediately
park my car and meet you."
And that she just opened
and told her client the excuse that
I was inquiring about Brazilian
waxes! Then she took me aside and
I got her number. AMP was with me
the whole way-- I'm
really attaining mastery over approaching
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"I
Was Completely Altered After Sunday"
More from Mr. Brejcha:
"For me it's been easy to make
small talk, be flirty, make some jokes
and create attraction with women.
What was missing was the deeper, more
risky conversation and connection.
AMP really helped me discover a new
way of relating that was
less gimmick and small talk, and more
real and authentic."
"The course was a great reminder
that it's not about what you
say to a woman. It's not
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reminder about being curious about that person's
story, getting the whole woman-- about how
you connect with her versus the words that
you use."
"AMP has created a real transformation
in the way I relate to dating. For one, I'm
much more resilient. If a girl didn't like
me in the past I would feel rejected-- not
good enough, not smart enough-- but now it's
not personal for me and that's a
lot of freedom for me. That
makes it a lot more fun and
I don't have to take dating so seriously!"
"Post-AMP I found myself taking
a lot bigger risks in relating to
women and also checking in with how that woman
experiences me. "Hey I noticed that something
changed whenever I said that, how was that
for you?" I'm having a lot more tuned in,
real-time interactions. I have no more challenges
chasing the wrong woman. Women keep
telling me, "Wow! Most guys don't notice these
things. You are really tuned in -- you see
what's going on." It has changed
the whole dynamic where we are much more real,
connected and truthful, and more creative
in our conversations."
"Decker has a really unique gift to really
feel what's going on with you and where you
close down, where your edges are as a man,
and feedback on how to show up more fully
in your life and with a woman. It's really
his intuition and ability to be in the flow.
He keeps it playful and fun-- even
though we were doing deep work, people
were smiling and laughing a lot. Working with
the women of AMP was a huge gift-- it deeply
moved me, cracked my heart open. It had me
really deeply honor women who are willing
to be in their feminine-- it's not always
safe to be that way in our culture, and I
have a profound respect for the women who
showed up and brought their feminine to us,
to feel that and experience that. I was completely
altered after Sunday. "
"I
Don't Feel Anxiety Like I Did Before
AMP"
"The most powerful thing I got
out of the course was realizing that
no matter what happens to me I'm going
to be OK. Nothing can really rock
me from my foundation. I am going
to be fine regardless. I feel that
right now my relationship that I have
with my Self is the strongest that
it has ever been. No only did I realize
this with my mind (which was never
a problem before) but more importantly
I realized this with my body and being.
I do not actually feel anxiety
like I did before the program. "
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"I
Gained A Wealth of Insight into Myself.
Was it Worth It? Oh Hell Yeah!"
I did AMP in Dec, 2006. It’s been
a month, so I think I can safely write
a review from an objective point of view
now (ie no post-workshop high).
MY PRE-WORKSHOP STATE
Basically, I was having decent success
with women, but there was a lot of
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pent-up unhappiness inside me that I didn’t
know how to deal with.
My main goal going into the workshop was to be able
to manage my emotions better by
understanding myself better.
My second goal was to be able to get over
my seduction anxiety with women. One of
my problems at that time was that I would get incredibly
nervous when I was around a woman that I really
really liked when it was time to kiss her, and I’d
more than likely pussy out of the kiss.
What I didn’t know was that those
would turn out to be merely two symptoms of the
same root problem.
THE WORKSHOP
Without going into details on the exact exercises
we did, I will tell you that by the end of the
first day at the workshop, I had gone through
an emotional roller coaster - rage, fear, sadness,
happiness. I was very shaken up by what I went
through because of the intensity of the emotions
that I went through.
Two particular events on Friday & Saturday
stand out.
#1) During one of the exercises where we were
basically allowed free reign to express our unconscious
emotions, I felt so furious that I was tempted
to actually break someone’s neck.
# 2) A few months ago, I was seeing a girl C.
During that time, I slept with another girl P.
Somehow, C felt something was wrong and she asked
me if I had slept with P. I denied it, and C dropped
it. This was several months ago.
After Friday’s exercises, I just felt an
immense load of guilt about lying to her. When
I got home, I called C and the conversation went
something like this:
Me: Hey
C: Hi!
Me: I owe you an apology.
C: Huh? What for?
Me: I lied to you. Remember when
you asked me about P? Well, I lied. I did sleep
with her. So uh… I’m calling to tell
you I’m sorry I lied to you. I know what
you think about people who lie to you, so if you
decide to never talk to me again, I totally understand.
*silence for one second*
C: (sounding very happy) Oh cool!!
I’m so glad you told me. She was genuinely
happy that I came clean. In fact, she said she
even wanted to come over to my place that night.
Where we only worked with each other on Friday/Saturday,
we would be working with women on Sunday. And
the AMP women are probably some of the
most intuitive people I have ever met in my life.
I had the pleasure of working mostly with Shelly.
She had a beautiful presence that lit me up,
but at the same time, there was a certain sadness
that I felt. In the last exercise of the day,
Shelly and Ami helped me uncover a lot
of repressed emotion that I had been (subconsciously)
unwilling to deal with. Their words to
me were that the entity who kept me safe from
my own emotions had been doing his job for the
last 30 years of my life, but I should turn to
him, thank him for keeping me safe, but tell him
that I would not be needing him in the next part
of my life, and to let him go. When I heard that,
everything suddenly clicked into place
for me, and I started crying.
AFTER THE WORKSHOP
After the workshop, I felt disturbed but yet strangely
at peace. It was as if I was on a ship in the
middle of a violent storm, but I knew that the
ship would not sink, and all I had to do was navigate
the storm. It wasn’t a matter of IF the
ship would come through. It was merely a question
of WHEN.
Here’s a sampling of some interactions with
women I’ve had since AMP…
About a week after the workshop, I had my first
“real” interaction with a female stranger.
We were at Borders during closing time, and I
just said a few words to her on the way out. When
we got out, I just asked her to join me for coffee,
and we spent the next hour talking. At the end
of the conversation, she said that it
was the most intensely real conversation that
she’d ever had with a person she had just
met.
A few days after that, I attended my company’s
Christmas party with a girl I had met over a year
ago. At the end of the evening, she told me that
I felt so different to her that it was as if she
was going out with a new guy, and there
was something new about me that she really liked.
In particular, she said that her bullshit
meter had been strangely silent the whole
night.
COMMENTS AND CONCLUSIONS
My biggest takeaway from AMP was being
able to accept myself for who and what I am
- my strengths, my weaknesses, what I crave, what
I like, what I dislike, what I feel and how much
I feel it. I’ve been more clear
about what I want. I’m more
in tune with my desires and feelings.
I’m also finding that I’m more
in tune with people around me. I find
myself more able to feel subtle shifts in emotions,
especially if a person is trying to mask his emotions
by layering something else on top of it.
Punctuality and order are a big thing during
the workshop. Travis, Bryan and all the other
AMP facilitators proved to be incredibly
insightful and supportive people. All
in all, this is probably one of the best
led workshops I have ever personally witnessed.
All in all, I had an awesome time, learned a
lot, and gained a wealth of insight into myself.
Was it worth the time and money? OH HELL YEAH!
"I Feel Like a 'Whole New Man'
with Women"
"AMP was both a lot of fun,
and extremely valuable. I feel like a
' whole new man' when
out talking to babes, and I'm definitely having
more success on that end than I've ever
had -- but oddly that doesn't seem like the point.
I feel like I'm being differently,
which is great, and that the reactions women are
having are a delicious but secondary by-product."
- Chris
Software Developer
Oakland, CA
"AMP Will Have a Profound Impact
On Your Life" AMP
is an amazing course! The course
leaders are phenomenal. You can truly
feel their passion to help you get the most out
of the course. AMP to me was about releasing the
things we repress inside ourselves which prevent
us from the living the great life we deserve.
The course is intense and will have a
profound impact on your life.
- Ash, 34
Entrepreneur
"AMP Was Profound & Life-Changing"
"I found my edge, which is the
real reason I took the course. My breakthrough
(dropping the damn emotional shield) was profound,
and I want to keep working on it. That and the
beginnings of working through my edge was profound,
and life changing. Illumination, catharsis,
transformation. The shit works, and you
guys rock.
Working with a very diverse group
of guys all committed to the same path--to have
better lives and relationships--was very impactful.
Having knowledgeable and loving male facilitators
was powerful and impactful. Working with the women
was the kicker. Beautiful, beaming goddesses
with x-ray souls and a willingness to take
it deep...Hot Damn!"
- Paul, Producer
San Francisco, CA
"I'm Free
to Approach Women with Confidence -- Fear of Rejection
No Longer Runs Me"
"The AMP weekend course helped me see where
I was not giving myself permission to play and
gave me a whole new way of relating with women
that is fun and exhilarating.
Through the course I found freedom to approach
women with confidence, be completely unattached
to the outcome (even blatant rejection),
and create conversations in the moment that bring
laughter and connection.
After the course, I went dancing
and saw a beautiful, blond woman that was 2 inches
taller than me. My first thought was, 'What would
she want with a man shorter than herself?' but
I approached her anywayconfident,
fearless, and completely OK with whatever happened...
I have never felt as confident,
graceful, and suave, and we talked for several
hours. When it was time to go, I asked her out
to dinner without any hesitation and she gave
me her phone number. Three dates later, were
having a blast, and Im still using what
I learned in the course to bring play
and connection into our relating."
- Jason, 35
Organizational Development Consultant
San Francisco, CA
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"I wish
I had taken AMP when I was in my thirties!
As an older man, I was reluctant to come
and take a course from younger men about
what it means to be authentic, but you
guys had a lot to teach me. I
am eternally grateful
for the opportunity to be in the workshop,
and I highly recommend it to anyone."
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"After AMP, I found a new
level of trust in myself to be present
and in the moment with a woman that that I find
attractive physically. Also, people have reflected
back to me that I'm showing up much more in
my power as a man.
To Decker and Bryan-- I was moved
by the depth of your wisdom given
your years. You both were awesome in terms of
your insight and seeing into the men in a loving
and compassionate but truthful way."
- Paul, 57
Technical Writer, San Mateo, CA
"Was it Worth it? Holy Shit
Batman, For Me, It Was Priceless."
"I've always appreciated the concept
of inner game, but I'd never
really gotten how powerful it really is. I
initially signed up to try to find out how I can
improve my communication skills. Was I
blown away when it turned out to be a
really incredible experience of self-discovery.
I really got my bell rung.
Listening to the feedback of others will help
you to see yourself the mirror clearly. It will
put your past interactions with women into context,
and give you a foundation for future ones.
Since AMP, I'm able to be more direct
and speak my mind, which encourages women to be
more open with me as well. One woman who saw me
before and after AMP said, "You're completely
changed. I don't know what it is but
you're acting totally differently-- in a good
way.
The atmosphere is very positive and supportive,
but it is challenging. I don't think
I'll ever forget it. And man, the women. What
a privilege to meet them. Some of the most giving,
insightful (bordering on mind-reading) women,
who want nothing more than to help you love [other]
women better. I learned more from these
women than I ever could from a flock of gorgeous
women at a bar.
Was it worth it? Holy Shit Batman, for me, it
was priceless."
- Brian
Multimedia Producer, San Francisco
"I
Now Choose the Women I Want to Date"
"I'm getting more results
in dating since AMP--I now choose the
women I want to date, as opposed to
being at the whim of that woman's interest.
I feel a lot more freedom and power as a result.
Plus, I'm attracting higher quality women!"
"I read a lot of David DeAngelo, and a
lot of other strategies that deal with techniques.
I got great results, but I wanted more-- something
that accesses all parts my being, not just the
psychology of attraction. Outer game skills
makes it more fun, but doesn't address the core
depths of what I really wanted in relating with
women."
How has AMP impacted my life specifically? Oh
my god, there's probably a million experiences.
I now regularly meet women who say to me the
first time we meet, 'Wow! Where did
you come from? Who are you? I just
feel compelled to come up and speak with you--you
seem like a really solid great guy
and I want to know you.' That kind of stuff.
One woman even said, 'You're giving off this...authentic
vibe. What's up with you?' This has happened
on numerous occasions since AMP.
Instead of me trying to go out and get attention
from women, their attention just follows,
which is a clear reversal of the psychology
of attraction that I have learned before. Now
it's more of a matter of managing interactions
as they arise-- there's no lack of
them anymore.
Another thing AMP shifted for me is that I see
now how incredibly beautiful women are.
I've completely increased my ability to perceive
and appreciate women-- Before I had a fear experience
but now I'm just profoundly more aware of how
incredibly complex and amazing they are, and
that's a great experience."
"Decker and Bryan Have a Near-Shaman-Like
Ability"
"Having done a fair amount of personal
growth work, I can say that these guys are in
the top elite of facilitators of this kind of
work. Decker and Bryan have a near-shaman-like
ability-- they walk the razor's edge
between supporting and challenging
like I've rarely seen before, and men come out
the other side with a whole different
worldview of themselves."
- John
Masters Student
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AMP is not just for Single Men... |
"The best thing that's come out of AMP
for me--my long distance girlfriend, who I'm
completely in love with, had been letting
me know in various ways that she didn't feel
she could show her full range of emotions
around me, and after the course, I realized
I hadn't wanted her to. Awhile back she asked
me "Can I freak out around you?"
and I gave some offhanded answer like "You
can freak out as long as you're at least 300
miles away.
Inspired
by my AMP weekend (especially
the Storming the Masculine exercise),
I told her my retroactive answer is
"Go for it." I let her know
I want to see ALL of her. After
that, she was able to put herself out
to me with a lot of emotion, from her
fears and frustrations to intensely
loving, caring, and sensual emotions.
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A few days ago, she told me she's been able
to fully relax and be herself around me for
the first time. Now she and I are
closer than ever." |
"AMP Is Dialed In to What Matters
Most"
"I've done a number of other
workshops, and in a lot of ways, they had blinders
on compared to you guys. You can't fake this.
AMP is dialed in to what matters most.
Since taking the course, random
women are smiling at me, sometimes before I've
even said a word--I'm just looking at them from
a place of appreciation and strength,
and they soften and smile and open up. Interactions
with new women (and people in general) are easier,
more joyful, and more rewarding. A couple of strained
friendships and work relationships have gotten
better. People are saying hi, conversations are
going on longer, and in more interesting directions,
and I'm experiencing more genuine connection."
"The AMP course was structured
and planned well, with a balance of teachings,
experiential exercises, and individual, one-on-one
attention. I liked that the first 2 days
was all guys, and we could learn, get to know
each other, and prep for the third day when the
women came in. It was illuminating and
intense working with the women, getting
real-time feedback on how I'm
seen, and getting coaching on how to fully engage.
Like the male course leaders, the women are committed
to helping you get the most out of the
weekend.
I've done a number of pickup workshops and
seminars, and AMP was the best by far:
the organization was excellent, the experiential
exercises and the feedback and coaching from
the women helped me open up and learn
at a deep level, the course leaders
keyed in to us and addressed our individual
concerns - in fact, they wouldn't let
us get away with doing a half-ass job of covering
something - I was glad they were so
committed to helping me - and most
important, they are dialed in to what
matters most in learning to have a
rewarding social life - they help you remove
the blocks that keep you from being naturally
good with women. Others teach behaviors that
"naturals" have, but these
guys teach you how a natural gets to be that
way. I think a lot of guys go to workshops
that teach outer game behavior and don't get
much out of it, because they don't understand
where the behaviors come from and then they
come off weird or fake (and they don't really
enjoy themselves, either). You can't fake it,
you have to live it, and the AMP team
focuses on how to do that."
"I Got Way
More Than I Bargained For!"
"Fucking awesome! No going back for
me now! The beauty, honesty, commitment, and
the love of the women made my breakthroughs
possible...Between Bryan's commitment to ensuring
we had the tools we needed, Decker's commitment
to serving men on a deep level, and the women's
openess, approval, and responsiveness to men
being on their edge and willing to move forward,
I got way more than I bargained for."
- Bernie
Mortgage Loan Agent
"The Leaders
of AMP Embody What they Teach"
"I have taken many many courses and workshops
in the past 6 years. The leaders of AMP, and the
community that surrounds it, have totally impressed
me with the authenticity and embodiment
of what they teach-- these men and women
are living the work, not just
talking about it, and living well and successfully
too. They practice what they preach, and love
the people they serve. Can't find better men and
women, period."
- Patrick, 35
Industrial Artist
Oakland, CA
"I Feel Free!"
Since AMP, I feel more grounded, more at
ease and confident-- more aware of my body
and of my heart. Especially my heart. To realize
how unconscious I am, of how my heart opens and
closes of its own will, is a gift like no other.
To have my heart open, when it would otherwise be
closed - has me feel connected with myself, conscious
and in control. I feel more like me, more
love for me, and overall - less fear and anxiety."
Regarding women and relating, I can't say. Work
has all of my attention right now. What I can say
is this; I FEEL FREE. Where there
once was an ever present desire, a sense of urgency
to meet and relate with women, there is now only
calm. Because I know when the time comes, I shall
go out into the world and find a woman that meets
me in every way. And I will have no fear in creating
the kind of relationship that works for us.
To the leaders of AMP, my deepest
gratitude and respect;
Bryan, you are a master of insight and omnipresence.
Decker, you are a leader and guide
of unprecedented skill. Amidst the chaos of energy
in a supercharged room, remains present, grounded
and solid. This I find to be invaluable with this
kind of work. One thing in particular that stands
out, is Decker's unique ability to field heavy
questions - while staying connected with every
man, the purpose and the process of the course.
It is easy to trust in the direction and pace
of the ship, with Decker at the helm."
- Casey, 29
President, Life Style Systems
Richmond, CA
"I Feel
More Solid Now"
"I was interested in authentic feedback
on how I was occurring to women, how my gifts
were being received, and what if anything might
be getting in the way. My intentions were fully
realized and I came out of the weekend grounded
in a way that was completely surprising to me.
There is a notable difference in my
Being, a directness and solidness
that comes from a deeper place."
- Ken, 52
Event Promoter, San Francisco, CA
"Meeting Women
and Creating Attraction Is No Longer an Issue
Anymore"
"Since AMP, meeting women and
creating attraction is no longer an issue anymore.
I definitely have much more of a sense of myself
-- more relaxed and present. I'm more comfortable
knowing how to create and enjoy attraction,
and have fun doing it.
I'm not splitting off from myself anymore because
I'm trying to be somebody that I am not. And
when I'm just Being, the women really
respond to that -- the ones I'm attracted
to are then attracted to me, without me having
to Do anything.
I had a frightening moment in the
course-- I had an emotional breakthrough and it
all came pouring out, and I felt like a weight
had been lifted off my chest and my heart
completely opened up-- what I had felt in my body
as just a black hole, a bottomless pit wasn't
actually bottomless-- it was full of love and
joy and presence and spontaneity on the other
side.
When I went
to work the next week on Monday it was
amazing -- people just started coming
into my office, and they didn't wanna leave. They
just wanted to hang out in my presence which was
really fun. I was getting cruised by women
in the grocery store, and people
just wanted to be around me.
I was looking for something like
this 10 years ago, and I couldn't find it until
now. Getting feedback from women
made the real difference for me. It was definitely
worth it."
- Alan, age 49
Software Analyst
"AMP's
Teachers Help Everyone Through the Smoke and Mirrors"
"Ive studied a lot of other material
on inner and outer game before coming to AMP.
None of the other material could convey
to me the essence of what is attractive between
people. This is such a subtle art;
Im amazed that it could be taught. AMP
is guided by teachers who have the wisdom to
notice what is at the heart of beauty between
people, and the compassion to help everyone
through the smoke and mirrors."
- Dave, Auditor
San Francisco
"This Stuff
Is the Real Deal"
"AMP will give you the tools to understand
and diagnose your actions (your way of being)
not only when relating to women, but also
when simply being yourself. Your ability
to connect with and understand yourself
is critical if you want to see, understand
and change how you relate to life, the universe,
and others (yup, including women).
In a world full of 'pickup classes' promising
the world, this stuff is the real
deal and will actually help you
to understand and change your way of 'Being.'
Take AMP, you will not be disappointed!"
- A.M.
Product Manager
San Jose, Ca
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