I just got off the phone with the CEO of a major dating company here in the Bay area…

And he’s mentioned that he’s got a problem on his hands – lots of eligible women are
showing up at the events…and there aren’t enough men!

As we explored this, it’s that same theme — it seems that men (especially 40+) seem to be fairly RESIGNED to their life situation…

Basically, they’re not motivated to get out there and make something happen.

They’re settling.

Like, they’ve been whupped by life, so they’ve settled for being single, settled for their day job, and are “making do” with their day-to-day routine.

And I can understand that…life can be tough!
It’s all some of us can do to get out of bed in the morning, much less get out there and meet someone.

I WANT TO BE SEDATED…?

It’s just easier to sedate ourselves with gadgets, video games, tv, sports and porn…or the pursuit of material possessions…

…than to get honest with ourselves about what we’re doing with our lives, what we want, and where we’re headed.

I can see this in myself too…left to my own devices, I’ll follow the tendency to sedate myself,“trance out” and coast along with the rest of the unconscious masses.

If any of this resonates for you…if you have that nagging sense that you could be more ALIVE, living a more rewarding life…then…

COMPLETE THE “COLD SHOWER” QUIZ

I’ve put together 6 carefully chosen questions designed to WAKE YOU UP to the places in your life where you might be “trancing out”, and help you get brutally honest with yourself about what’s next for you, and what might be in the way.

Check it out —

http://www.authenticmanprogram.com/thecoldshowerquiz/

BTW, I don’t think I’ve offered coaching to you guys in 7 years, but I’ve been feeling the itch to get back in the trenches with a few men inspired to pour rocket fuel on their lives. At the end of the survey, there’s an opportunity for a few of you to do just that.