Mark Michael Lewis gives us the all-access pass to “the goodies” (all the great things about being with a woman.)
To get there, we’re gonna need to pay attention.
Romance is not some mysterious, magical thing that just happens. We create romance, and this is a skill we can learn and practice.
In this episode, Mark goes into detail about this Big Idea, he shares a powerful insight, and gives us 2 choices to make, and 3 quick strategies that will fast-track us into mastery around creating romance.
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Show notes:
[00:45] The All-Access Pass
[01:50] What’s it all for?
[03:38] The Big Idea about Romance
[05:30] Old-style romance
[06:00] Romance can be fun for you
[06:48] The Big (Controversial) Insight
[08:35] It’s all a Game (what role will you play?)
[09:10] Relationship Gardens
[09:55] The Fundamental Insight of Romance
[10:25] The Two Choices you must make (for all of this to work)
[11:15] The FIRST Choice (Nothing else matters if you don’t make this choice)
[12:35] What a (happy) woman can do for you
[14:05] The Crucial Reason to get good at romance
[15:14] The SECOND Choice (What comes next)
[17:25] The Three Strategies
“The feminine wants the masculine attention – and blossoms in the face of it”
[24:00] Attention vs Need – know the difference
[24:45] What she wants in your attention
[25:35] How to make your attention more valuable to her
[26:28] The kind of attention that is MOST valuable to a woman
[26:55] Attention and SKILFUL attention
[27:30] How Your Attention leads to Affection (appreciation)
“She wants your attention so that she feels seen… so that through your eyes she sees herself”
[30:12] How to know what kind of affection she wants
[31:05] Cat-calling Affection
[32:15]She’ll Tell You (It might just be a clue)
[33:00] The Clue Game
[35:18] The skill of romance for the masculine
[35:45] The Third Step
“You take actions that express your affection based on what you’ve noticed through paying attention”
“The Five Love Languages is a set of filters through which you can pay attention”
[37:19] Beyond the Love Languages
[45:15] The Garden of Romance – The nature of the game
[45:42] Your role as the masculine: Cultivate the garden
[48:00] A Specific, 30min Practice
[49:40] An overview of Creating Thriving Partnerships.
As a woman listening to this, you are SO onto it Mark! Listen up guys, we love men who get this xx
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